If you are going to date someone who is a member of the military, part-time or full-time here are a few things to consider and be ready for: 1) If you are someone who needs a boyfriend or girlfriend at your side at all times or their constant attention and affection, a military spouse life is not going to be a great choice for you.Do not expect they can do that for you and do not make them feel guilty that they should.Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. That and plus a lot of military, will tell you that the first marriage usually does not last. A lot of them are stuck in a small town that is only supported by the military economy and the chance to marry someone that has a steady job and even free housing looks very appealing to someone in their early 20's without education or job skills. Twenty years in the military and 10 years as a civilian on a miltary base, I've seen stuff that would be prime time for Jerry Springer.
My boyfriend is Honorably Discharged from the US Army.
I remember mentioning this to another wife in passing, and how surprised I was that this build-up seemed harder than his first tour.
I felt like I was at my wits end and worried about going into a deployment in this state.
So we took the opportunity to talk with a few wives, and pick their opalescent brains about their best advice ever.
When it comes to tips about loving a service member, nearly ever wife agreed, that getting yourself moving and keeping yourself occupied were key.
In addition, your man is surrounded by the Army way of life.