I don’t know if he is really in love with me or just playing me to get some time off.. He wants me to write a letter to the army requesting time off so we CAN get married..he would like to talk on the phone and said there is protocol to follow.Truth be told, it’s hard for them to turn this off.That coupled with the stress and exhaustion that comes with Army life can make it hard for him to spend lots of time planning things for the two of you to do together.It’s no surprise that soldiers are one of the most desirable professions out there.
Here are some more signs you’re involved in a dating scam. He should also be willing to tell you where he is, where he is stationed, where you would both live after getting married, etc. Has he given you an AKO email address (his name @ mil)? And if he asks you for money, you should cut off contact with him. I have been chatting with a man who said he is in the Army and is in Iraq.I remember catching my friend’s mother eating lunch with another man and holding hands.As an adult who is married to a service member, I come across spouses who are cheating on their service member and then trying to evade punishment or simply not worrying about it.If marriage in the military is equal, then divorce should be equal, too. I grew up Navy housing where I saw my friends’ mothers cheating on their husbands.We have rules about military adultery for service members, why not have military spouse adultery rules, too? The boat would go out and the boyfriend would come in.My boyfriend is a soldier in the United States Army. Understand that these guys have to deal with things that the average person couldn’t imagine.