The chemistry was obvious, but nothing ever “happened.” Or did it? Gail Saltz, MD, associate professor of psychiatry at New York-Presbyterian Hospital/Weill Cornell School of Medicine, says “probably.” “Many of these emotional affairs do move into a sexual affair,” Saltz says.They made a beeline for each other every morning, and their chats became more and more personal. “If they don’t, it’s easy enough to say to yourself that you’re not doing anything wrong.” The problem, she says, is the attachment to this other person impacts the marriage.Don't let the marriage license laws of Germany put a dent in your wedding plans.
Like many women, René (who asked that only her middle name be used), a writer from northern New Jersey, had two husbands: a regular spouse and a “work husband,” a man -- interesting, smart, funny -- with whom she spent 9 hours a day.
Alternatively, the dream can reflect true feelings about wanting your ex back.
If your ex-boyfriend is proposing to you or showing affection then it can imply that you are looking for the same completeness that you felt when you were together and happy, it doesn't necessarily mean you want him back.
In most cases it's the actual feeling of completeness you are looking for in some aspect of your waking life.
If your ex-boyfriend is injured or in hospital then it suggests that there are unresolved issues between you or you are still getting over the break up.
Instinctively, we know there is something better, something whole that life was intended to deliver, but somewhere those plans were destroyed and we live in the aftermath, piecing together disparate parts that don’t fit together so well. Some people speakif brokenness is beautiful, as if life was intended to be a cubist painting – identifiable as “life” but chunked up, chipped and badly distorted, like a basket of eggs handled by a carless child.