We have walked them (and you, the reader) through tips on how to make sure your profile isn’t boring.Today we will be teaching Paul and Daisy the basics for sending quality icebreaker messages.I’m going to let you in on a little secret that I let Paul and Daisy in on that many people know about. The key to great messaging (and online dating in general) is to utilize AIDA.The great thing about great icebreaker messages is that you don’t even have to utilize all of it in your first message.
One thing she really stressed was the importance of coming up with a few icebreaker questions to get the conversational ball rolling.A thought-provoking, fun, playful message that stands out from the crowd of “hey, baby what's up” and “hi” messages from all the losers who haven't read our blog. Make it easy for her to respond by asking a question in your message.Once you come up with a few good ones, test them out and keep the winners. And here's where the copy/paste strategy comes into play." So I came up with a few icebreakers in advance and, lo and behold, they totally worked!Now I'm asking every girl I meet silly questions.You can work through AIDA over the course of a few messages. I can’t believe how many people use improper grammar on online dating sites and it really is a turn off for people. Here is something slightly better: This message does a much better job of grabbing attention and building interest than the previous one.