It takes certain strength to be the woman behind the muscle man, and here’s why. Now, imagine eating that amount of food every two hours, all day long, and you’ll start to understand how much they actually eat in a 24 hour period. Or a freezer stuffed to capacity with Tupperware containers that only represent a few days worth of meals? You need to understand that the gym is his passion, and he will be spending tons of time there. But if he’s like most of them, he works 40 hours a week, and chases his dream on his own time. He probably cares about you more than anyone else in his life, but you have to understand that being a body builder is his fire, his blood, and that trying to get in between him and his gym time is how ex-girlfriends are made.This is a vital component to dating a lifter, and it won’t take you long to realize what that means. It also means they will be on a very strictly regimented diet. You can look forward to going to restaurants, BBQ’s, clam bakes, and fish fries where he’s going to reach into his bag, and pull out his own pre-prepped, perfectly weighed, and calculated meal rather than eat whatever is on the menu. That time will amount to two to three hours in the gym. Supporting his dream, however, will make him see you as the one in a million girl who just GETS him.Especially considering what he probably looked like when he started. Not to mention, “posing” is a huge factor to winning on stage.
That and the fear created by the AIDS crisis, and the loss of a number of freinds in the 1980s, all did a number on me and kept me in the closet until I was 40.
I still remember the buzz about it the next day in high school, and I remember that it wasn’t entirely positive. I loved it, but in my teenage brain I couldn’t explain my blend of awe and attraction to those men on stage. I knew I was gay from the time I had hormones and saw my first movie.
Being a closeted gay kid, to me it seemed that if I hit a gym and began lifting, somehow, in that era, I was going to be questioned.
My model Big Brit has a big Gay gallery of his own and I also shot this great HD video of him working out in the Gay Mecca, West Hollywood (Weho). (120 kg) bodybuilder Big Brit works out his legs and abs, then poses in West Hollywood.
You will be shocked at how much he looks like Procter & Gamble's grime fighting mascot "Mr.
Four years ago, at the age of 40, he was crowned both British Masters Champion and World Champion, receiving his 'Pro' card – “the golden chalice of bodybuilding” – in recognition.