If you’ve been reading my newsletters long enough, you know that while such events are all encouraging, none of them qualify as “real”.Real only happens when it’s clear that a man is your committed boyfriend.If you’re ‘dating’ chances are you could be planning to meet up with multiple people.After all, if you’re only on the verge of going on a first date with one person, you don’t want to be ignoring other offers for someone you’ve never met.But here’s the thing: We have so much fun together. My best friend tells me to relax – this is just how dating is. I’m going nuts thinking about him dating other girls. However, despite the apparent benefits, the Tinder Revolution often leaves us feeling less self-confident, confused, frustrated, and empty. Everybody wants to feel special and to be treated with love and respect.She says it’s 100% normal for us to both date multiple people at once until we decide together to make the relationship exclusive. Agreeing to date someone while he or she dates other people signals that it is somehow acceptable not to respect or value you.
Maybe you don’t mind, or maybe it makes you wonder if they’re taking things seriously.I shouldn't even be asking this but it is driving me crazy.I was dating a guy who was also dating another girl, which I knew about. The other girl he had dated for a few months and they broke up but remained friends.Every time I date a nice guy, especially if I like him, I feel so insecure and wonder, what if he’s dating someone else at the same time?Just last month, I met a cute guy and we went out and had so much fun together. Now it’s been a month and we’ve gone out four times.Until then, it’s all speculation, hope, fantasy, desire, wishful thinking, and potential. What I’m writing about is what you make all of this dating stuff MEAN. remember the phone session we had last month where we were looking at one of the guys who had written to me on Match.